Narcissistic personality disorder
13 Signs of a Narcissist & How to Deal with Narcissism
As well as striving for their own perfection, they expect the same of others and will want all events and situations to play out exactly as they had planned.
These symptoms can make it difficult to maintain healthy relationships, a fact that earns people living with narcissistic personality plenty of stigma.
This relates to narcissistic insecurity.
This was no normal break-up or relationship: this was a set-up for covert and insidious murder of your psyche and sense of safety in the world.